Wednesday, January 2, 2013

I Hate Love Stories, but I Love Hate Stories




When I was in the second grade, my teacher read my class a book titled The True Story of the Three Little Pigs. More or less, the book tried to show that there are two sides to every story, and that the perspective it is being told from can completely change the way people view it. The reason I bring this up is because I think the greatest strength in The End of The Affair is its use of perspective throughout the film. It opens with Bendrix’s account of the story, and the ominous opening line: “This is a diary of hate.” Through this telling of the story, the film was able to incorporate flashbacks and scenes without too much difficulty. However, Bendrix’s perspective also forces the viewers to view things the way that he saw them. Therefore, at the beginning of the film, Sarah seems like a bad person. When the beginning of the story is told through Bendrix’s eyes, all that we can know is that Sarah cheated on her husband, Henry, with Bendrix, left Bendrix for no good reason (and in fact wished that Bendrix was dead), and persisted cheating on Henry. However, after Bendrix acquires Sarah’s diary, we get to relive everything through her eyes. Sarah never really loved Henry, as he was never a good husband to her. However, she did truly love Bendrix, and never wanted to stop loving him. The only reason that she stopped was because she made a deal with God after Bendrix was nearly killed by a bomb. If God allowed Bendrix to live, she would stop seeing him. When he lived, she left him. This makes Bendrix and Henry seem like the bad guys. After getting that perspective, though, Henry gets to present his point. When he reveals that he never really wanted to know if Sarah was cheating on him, was not jealous, and interrupts her and Bendrix only to tell her that her illness was killing her, he is revealed to actually be a very good person. This leaves Bendrix as the loser at the end of the film, and after seeing every perspective, we come back to him as a hating, angry man.



This scene explores many themes that are present throughout the film, but the line I want to focus on right now is when the priest says, “You are a good hater.” This illustrates Bendrix’s relationships with almost every major character in the movie. To everybody else, his jealousy and anger comes off as hatred. Even he himself can only feel hatred. Though he does not include himself in the list of things and people he hates, the priest is right when he says that Bendrix is in pain. Bendrix had actually turned this priest away before Sarah died, so it is his fault that she will not have a Catholic funeral. Bendrix had formerly come to terms with how he felt about Henry. He realized that Henry was content with how things had turned out, and, even though he loved Sarah, only wanted what was best for her. However, out of pure anger he claims that he now hates Henry, as if the reason he and Sarah never ended up together was completely Henry’s fault. He also hates God (whom Sarah had come to terms with before her death). However, this scene also reveals a lot about Bendrix and Sarah’s relationship. Bendrix, indeed, was a good hater. He was a jealous and angry man. However, his jealousy always turned into love for Sarah. To her, the jealousy was a good thing, as it kept them together. With her gone, all that was left for Bendrix was hate.


I found a lot of the references to Catholicism and God very reminiscent of Greene’s other works. The above link is to a video of the last scene of the movie. In it, Bendrix reveals that he has come to believe in God. He feels that God used his hatred against him, to force him to believe. Even though Greene was Catholic, we’ve seen that he is not afraid to show the darker side of religion and God. I also found some similarities to the whiskey priest from The Power and The Glory. In the first scene that I posted, the priest recognizes Sarah as worthy of a Catholic burial. He says that the Church recognized the baptism of desire. Even though she was definitely not the “bad guy” at the end of the film, she was not, by any stretch, a good Catholic. She cheated on her husband and did not believe in God for most of her life. However, she came to terms with herself and her faith by the time she died. Despite bearing some resentment towards God, she came to believe in miracles, and she wanted to be a good person. Similarly, the whiskey priest did not really believe in a lot of things that he was supposed to, and was not a typical priest. However, he did his best to come to peace with himself.

Overall, I thought the movie started out a little slow, and I'm not particularly a fan of romance movies, but I'd still highly recommend this movie. I think it got a lot better as it went along, and, though sometimes hard to follow with some of the flashbacks, it really came together at the end.


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